1. Not hear the interlocutor attentively. Why? Still think you are about yourself!
2. Try to bring a friend on the mental equilibrium. Then he starts to behave like you. So here it is time to catch him in impropriety. Well, or, in extreme cases, to declare that he is no better than you. Among other things, exasperated opponent will certainly have to remind the ancient wisdom: “You are angry, Caesar, then you’re wrong!” Angering the interlocutor is also important because in this state, it will often make mistakes. In no event do not miss the event as a mock at them (the errors), and on it own (your partner)!
3. The golden rule: you – the word, and you in return – two. Feel free to increase the volume of the replicas. If necessary, discuss certain words, including prepositions. The meaning is simple: the source is unlikely to want and / or be able to discuss all this massive stream of consciousness. Then you will count yourself boldly nediskutiruemym win on points. Aerobatics: with all this blame his interlocutor that he refused to discuss such an important and essential moments! After all, the hedgehog is clear that the opponent must willingly and on your first request to discuss anything you slander him!
4. The substitution of the thesis – the main discussion welcome. Boldly, but gently, to change the subject of dispute. Ascribe all sorts of people they are talking nonsense. What stupid looks like your partner – the better for you.
5. Feel free to provoke buddy! He must not stand. Either would spit and leave. Or lose composure (see Section 2). For example, the caller tells you: “I love spaghetti with ketchup.” Oh-oh-oh! It was then that he made strategic blunders! Feel free to say in response: “A steak with fried potatoes, then you think, complete garbage??” If you reach a constructive outcome, at least to mock their hearts’ content!
6. Be sure to stand in a pose offended. Some opponents are caught in this trap. Begin to bow and scrape, to comfort and apologize! That’s when it’s time to regard all this as a sign of weakness! Strong never apologizes! It’s time to inflict a decisive retaliatory blow, and certainly with izdevochkoy, said: “Well, then, acknowledge that I was right?”
7. Make your opponent excuses! Apologetic man often looks like a guilty and defeated. Do not be afraid of absurdities! Feel free to accuse your opponent of what only you can! What is impossible – too blame!
8. Do not neglect style! Try to insert a replica hurtful words and frazochki! Firstly, this will give you immediately understand the other person, that he had not yet reached the level of your respect. Then he still needs to work. And, secondly, see Section 2.
9. Start with a replica of the emotional words of the parasite, such as: “Of course!”, “Schaz-s-h”, “aha!”. Hearing a “screen saver” your opponent immediately realizes that needlessly got involved in a discussion with you, because his words – just baby talk compared to yours. Do not neglect the emotional coloring in the middle of the replicas. Call error – the author’s narrow-mindedness, confusion – fading thoughts and greyness; scrupulousness – verbalism etc.
10. All the ambiguity and ambiguity Treat only in their favor! Let your opponent will appreciate your value and your intellectual greatness!
11. Do not be silent when there is nothing to say! It makes a poor impression. Always say! If in fact have nothing to say, the carp particular! Particular, many – so they are good. A worthy goal: to divert the discussion away and bury the sense among the smallest detail.
12. Be demanding of the other party and inflexible! No matter what you do not meet the same requirements as his! Remember: you – your favorites!
13. Less-factor! In a constructive dialogue can reveal a sad truth for you! Avoid and specifics! Do not go on about his guest! In no event do not begin a detailed discussion of his remarks! On the contrary, try to discuss what your opponent did not. In this case, your replica will always be unexpected for the opponent. But the unpredictable – half the victory!
14. Say it is not clear! What is unclear, the better. There is a chance that your opponent will feel like an idiot! Not bad work foggy replica in one or two words! In no case do not give any explanation! What lisp! If your opponent is something not understood – it was his misfortune, and your advantage!
15. Always and everywhere at any criticism of the react: “Sam you fool!” It does not matter whether it is an empty criticism or fair and constructive criticism! You – above it! Always! Do not forget to § 7! No substantive replies! In response to criticism certainly explain that he, to put it mildly, nebezgreshen! He did himself no clue!
16. If your opponent has recognized at least some your criticism or apology (that’s a fool! “), Without delay, take advantage of the situation! Immediately ascribe his overall victory in the dispute and finish an opponent some sarcastic remark, pokrovitelnym!
17. Answer a question with a question! And your question is in any case should not be specified. What these intellectuals stuff! The purpose of your question is quite different: the interlocutor put in place. Particularly well this method works in cases where the interviewee starts too clever. For example, you say: “And if you take into consideration the inherent trans-sublimation of the ego metaphor?” In response to boldly ask a counter question: “Have you read the last article Bergson – Tze Ming?” If your opponent is – a hard nut to crack and is not afraid to admit their own ignorance, then he can begin to specify, for example, who is this most Tze Ming. At this answer: “You do not even know Tze Ming, but is taken to talk about this difficult subject,” or “That’s it! We initially work with Zi Ming, and only then come to debate with me! ”
18. Quoting an opponent, try to distort the original idea. To do this, throw out the essential words and quotes at random break off the quote. Example: The phrase “I do not think that this problem can be fully” should be cited as follows: “… the problem can be solved completely,” or so: “I do not think that this problem can be resolved …”.
19. If your opponent has caught you in any obvious stupidity or you have to clear the error, immediately pay all in jest. It is obvious that your buddy just completely no sense of humor! He jokes, you see, do not understand!
20. Do not neglect to get personal! This method allows you to immediately kill two birds with one stone: to solve the problem referred to in paragraph 7 and paragraph 2.
21. A sure way to bring together people from themselves and put him in his place: for any replica interlocutor methodically answer a bored, haughty tone: “It is long since we all know” or “yes, I know, I know it’s corny.” Wag a companion on your hand, recognizes whether his incompetence, if not angry at a joke – any outcome in your favor!